condoms or no condoms? ☔
yes, a bunch of you were correct i..
🕑 Added 2022-09-03 04:02:07 +0000 UTC
condoms or no condoms? ☔
yes, a bunch of you were correct in noticing that i had condom-less sex with my man on our first date!
this did not happen without a conversation, testing on both sides and documentation for proof though 😂
i have extremely "strict" boundaries when it comes to safety in my sex life, and that includes raw dogging fun!
firstly, i am not on birth control (fuck you synthetic hormones that made me feel like a basket case for a decade and a half!)
but him, having already had and deciding he was done with having kids, had already gotten snipped ✂ over a decade ago!
this is one of my fave things about dating older, divorced men with kids - they're usually snipped, and neither of us want me to get pregnant, so we can have all the worry free 🐻back sex we want!
secondly, we both got tested before our date to verify that neither of us were carrying any sneaky ickies 🦠
literally, i asked to see his recent test results! 😎
i was willing to show him mine too, but he didn't ask!
it's great that he trusted me, but this is also part of the problem people - safety first 🦺!
anyways we were all good, he was shooting blanks, and i felt safe and comfortable to proceed in sitting on his 🍆 and have all the fun!