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🕑 Added 2023-01-16 18:41:17 +0000 UTC ๐ฏ Dating Advice | A Series To Help With Your Game ๐ฎ **The 3 Ingredients to Charisma** Charisma is a powerful tool used to convey what you communicate more effectively by amplifying HOW you say it. There are three subconscious signals that are a byproduct or components of what charisma is made up from. And understanding and utilizing these in regards to daily life and in this case dating will put you head and shoulders above other men wanting the same women you are after. Let's Begin ๐ฟ **PRESENCE** Presence is about moment to moment mindfulness, awareness and being attentive to what is in front of you. People pick up on the micro aspects of distraction. However, vice versa, they notice you are THERE. You cannot mask it. A lot of you ask, "What do I say on dates" - well this aspect of charisma you don't say much to impress. You simply make a mindset shift and take complete interest in the other person. People like to talk about themselves. Thus, you have to master attentive listening. Another shift in thinking is being comfortable with discomfort. I spoke about this with silence. If you can have moments of silence on a date, this heightens the presence and creates a metaphorical bubble around you both. ๐ **POWER** The world revolves around power. Women tend to date up but what this really means is that they want a powerful man who can move and create the world around them. Everyone can be seen as powerful in their own way. You do not need to JUST look dangerous by going to the gym. Of course it helps. However, power derives from the mind once again. A simple mindset shift is visualizing a moment in your life when you felt like a winner; You felt some type of accomplishment that took work; Or even you were acknowledged as the best. If you don't have one, make one up! The mind cannot tell what is real from what is imagined. Use this to your advantage. ๐ **WARMTH** This is goodwill towards others and speaking these things and letting others know. People are simply reflections of yourself. If you treat others with goodwill, your intentions will reflect back to yourself. Others will feel this and you will get complements such as, "He's a good dude" or "You care for others". Do not skip this. This is the most important because people will often remember how you made them FEEL (and also HOW you say things of course) rather than what you said. If you have any question, please send a message! The Course will be back open in February and will talk about more in depth topics such as these!
