Hello my loves.
A longer post than usual. There are some th..
🕑 Added 2023-09-13 16:22:13 +0000 UTC
Hello my loves.
A longer post than usual. There are some things that you and I need to clear up and out, so I can continue to be on this platform.
First of all: I apologise for being quiet on here.There are a bunch of people waiting for replies on messages and customs (about ~500 conversations to be exact, just to give you an idea of what the workload looks like right now). I'm working my butt off to reply to every one of them, and I beg for your patience if you haven't received anything yet.
My being quiet or unresponsive over the past two weeks is not a reflection of my feelings towards any of you, with the exception of one (or more than one, not sure): the person who stole my content and put it out into the outside world.
I know it comes with the job. I knew it was a risk. And it still hit me way harder than I thought it would. I pride myself in being authentic and genuine, and thought I was building a community that wanted the same. In that, I forgot that this is indeed the internet and there will ALWAYS be that one jackass who is hell bent on ruining it for everyone. I've had to take a break and do some other things with my life to re-evaluate if this platform is still something I wish to do.
Then there is also the lack of boundaries; I personally failed to set them, and am now seeing the results of that inaction. I mentioned the number of open conversations with a specific reason: to show you what is going on behind the scenes.
To make sure that being on this platform remains possible for me, here are some new rules that I will be enforcing from today onwards.
If you would like to interact with me on a deeper level than a quick 'hi how are you' or asking OF specific questions, there is a category in the tip menu called 'texting'. I will be referring to that rate more clearly during conversations from here on out. It allows me to prioritise better and plan my day out without burning out.
I am also putting a hold on new custom requests until I have the backlog under control. If you are waiting for yours, it is still coming, I promise. I will post here when it's open for new requests.
Last but not least: I am going to be more strict about negative behaviour. I haven't in the past, and it has bit me squarely on the ass (and not in the fun way).
Yes, this is a place where you get to see my tatas and more, but **I am also still a real life human being**. That means treating me with respect and not as an object.
Crossing that particular boundary will get you one warning. If the behaviour continues after that, you will be banned from the page without an option to come back. I sincerely hope I will never have to use this beyond the one time it has happened.
ANYWHO. Thank you for reading all that. I'm gonna be live this evening, although I can't promise it'll be a long one since I'm a bit under the weather.
Hope to see you all soon ❤️
