My Divorce(?) Story
I promised I would tell the whole story..
🕑 Added 2023-09-02 17:30:03 +0000 UTC
My Divorce(?) Story
I promised I would tell the whole story of what happened between Bob, Andrew, and I. I finally did it. It’s a long story that spans the length of several months. I walk you through how I met Andrew and how Bob and I navigated consensual nonmonogamy, all the way until he eventually asked for a divorce. There’s still more to this story, but this is what I could handle telling for now. The time codes provided are here to help you find your place because I know it is a LONG story to listen to. In all honesty, if you want to know what happened, I feel that all of the details are important in order to fully understand the relationship dynamics that were happening. If you have further questions, please leave them in a comment and I will address those in a separate video as well.
P.S. Sorry for the poor image quality. The video is so long and I wanted to make the file as small as possible. Plus, this isn’t about what I look like for once lol
0:35 why I took the stories off TikTok
4:10 thoughts of doubt after the wedding
5:00 the girl Bob was hanging out with before I met Andrew
6:05 trying to make new friends
6:50 the night I met Andrew
10:40 Bob gives me permission to hook up with Andrew without him
11:55 The Halloween Party
17:20 things with Andrew develop and I keep checking on Bob
19:20 Bob gets his threesome with Jinx
23:10 First date with Andrew
27:55 The Holiday Ball
31:15 Bob says he’s ok with me falling in love with Andrew
34:15 Swinging
37:01 The Meteor Shower
40:25 My feelings about Bob skipping events
41:20 The 2 Day Trip
45:55 Discussion surrounding pregnancy
49:25 The First Domino
1:03:00 After “Soulmate Day”
1:05:50 Going home to Bob
1:09:05 The 50/50 Conversation
1:12:56 The Talk with Bob and Andrew
1:15:28 Bob and I leave for holiday
1:18:28 An example of my feelings getting invalidated
1:21:15 Context about my therapy
1:21:55 The Hotel Room with Bob
1:26:28 Getting Moldavite
1:27:35 Bob and I find and fuck a unicorn
1:29:00 Arriving in Vegas for AVN
1:31:31 The day Bob left
1:40:40 Andrew steps in to help me at AVN
1:42:14 Exploring my feelings, more context
1:44:50 Bob asks for a divorce
