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JOI - humilation & degradation
🕑 Added 2021-09-19 00:12:45 +0000 UTCpay attention of tags + aftercare... (important tags in title) prepare yourself and if you aren't in the right head space please don't listen until you are <3
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Lisa 🇬🇧 🫦 ♏🍷🔞
THAT WAS FANFUCKINGTASTIC, DAVID!!! Perfect and so much fun! More, please, lots, lots more JOI! (That last 5 mins was perfect aftercare for my needs too, btw! It was very special, loving and warm. Dunno what everyone here was talking about 4 years ago!) Xxx
Jennifer Edwards
💯 Love Heart 💓.
Ohio Oreo
Why no aftercare? D’s gentle and carefully aftercare is literally the main reason that I became big fan of him. I love his aftercare sooooo much! Please be gentle and nice to me after a rough sex, I love it.
Emmie
Role play is part of bdsm and it's definitely not always sexual. He's a dom, listener is the sub most of the time. BDSM is not always riding crops, ropes, floggers, collars, leashes and handcuffs. It's a negotiated power exchange that involves negotiated aftercare. Aftercare is not always cuddling and praise, it's just time designated to come back down to reality that way sub/dom drop doesn't occur. Sometimes it's wrapping up in a blanket, drinking a cup of tea and sitting in mutual silence while holding hands. Sometimes it's tending to any wounds that might've happened and Sometimes it's cuddling and reassuring your partner like what we heard in this audio. The majority of his nsfw audios are based in bdsm. I'm not saying this as a fangirl, just as a member of the bdsm and kink community trying to clear some of this up.
Emmie
THIS 💯!!!!
cami ᰔ
As a person who has never been in any kind of relationship, sexual or emotional. Before David’s audios, I had no idea that aftercare was a thing. Like from social media, I have noticed that it has been normalized to not have ‘aftercare’. And rather the two just rolled over to the other side of the bed and acted like nothing happened. But I’m very glad and happy that I learned about aftercare through David and his community. Now I know that when I have a partner, I will make sure that they can provide aftercare and I will do the same. I think David is the only VA I’ve listened to that actually gives aftercare. The aftercare in his audios, is my favorite part. And as a person who suffers from anxiety, I very much appreciate reassurance. I don’t think that there can be such a thing as ‘too much reassurance’ , especially if you’re engaging in something so emotionally, spiritually and physically intimate.
Rynoa Li
Let it be known that if you're engaging in bdsm or kink in general; that boundaries, safety precautions, and aftercare are all necessary and valid. Even if you choose not to engage in aftercare, that should be discussed with your partner BEFORE any coital engagement takes place. Stating that aftercare or checking your partners wellbeing after a scene is linked to abuse is not only untrue, but simply harmful to those who are new to the kink space and community. On that note, not everything will be "for you" in life, and that's ok. But invalidating others for their choices and preferences based on personal bias isn't the way to express yourself or the "point" you're trying to make. THINK before you KINK.
Princess Tina
For any Patreon dipping their toes into BDSM, please note that aftercare should most definitely be discussed and if it is not or someone thinks its not necessary that is a red flag.
Jude
To be crystal clear, and for the final time, I have posted here expressing only one option, that which is my own. I don’t profess to speak some universal infallible, truth. The fan girls are entitled to gush as much has they like, and of course there must always be at least one post from a listener professing their disdain for remarks made in the comments section, which I can only assume they are compelled to read under threat of death. And I do make a clear distinction between rough sex and BDSM, which isn’t my thing at all. And I don’t believe that the audios produced by David really contain anything that would come close to passing as serious BDSM content. Thus, the point regarding BDSM aftercare is kinda moot. What happens between consenting adults, etc...but sex requiring aftercare does give me pause. That, again, is my personal view. Anyway, this has become kinda tedious. Time for this listener to turn off notifications and do some writing for which I’m actually paid. Happy hunting.
AliteralSlut
I think your doing amazing and people should read the tags. You have fans that are interested in and love the aftercare and clearly people that dont. If they just followed instructions on EVERY SINGLE POST U MAKE and pay attention to the tags.. these long nagging comments wouldn’t appear 😊
Princess Tina
I think the problem is your talking about rough sex and David performs BDSM, which are most definitely not the same; in fact BDSM doesn’t require sex at all. As an avid member of the BDSM community I thoroughly disagree that the presence of the need for aftercare indicates a need for pause. In fact, if you practice BDSM and don’t receive or talk about aftercare…that to me would require a moment of pause. Rough sex and BDSM are not the same. Perhaps that’s the misunderstanding??🤷🏼♀️ For example I engage in canning which requires me to be taken care of afterwards mentally, physically and emotionally and doesn’t allow for my partner to just get up and make dinner and go on about our day. However I am by no means in an abusive relationship. The requirement of aftercare in BDSM becomes a necessity.
Jude
Sheesh. This is just one listener’s opinion/observation. I have never personally been in a relationship where I doubted that my partner cared for me, irrespective of the type of sex we had. While post-coital sweet talk may be desirable to some (I’m more words into action - hence my LIGHT HEARTED dinner reference), my point is simply that if you require comfort or reassurance after sex then there is perhaps a reason to take pause. I’m a woman in charge of my own body. I am not the ‘other’ to the man’s ‘self’. I don’t need to be told that my sexual appetites are permissible, or be thanked for my involvement in sexual activities as if I was a passive third party participant. Nor do I expect that the sex act will be in any way traumatising and require my partner to murmur platitudes. Again, this is one opinion. If you like the aftercare stuff, then enjoy. It just not my bag.
Audiogasm021
if thats the case for you I implore you not to recommend that to others as that mentality can have adverse effects on some individuals
Jude
Delicious. But, as always, I’m not a fan of the aftercare. If you feel the need to say ‘thank you’ and/of ‘sorry’ to your partner after sex, it’s likely that all is not well. I’m assuming that most, if not all, subscribers understand that rough sex and an abusive relationship can/should be mutually exclusive. We can fuck hard, and then you can make me dinner and feed the dog while I watch Married at First Sight.
Casey_17
Exceptional, as always 😭
Bara
This is just amazing ❤️
Gabriella ♡
the aftercare always has me crying 😭
Emmie
Well happy birthday to me😈😏 That aftercare though! I've needed this for a minute! Thank you 💜💜
Emmie
I was just thinking the same thing. They are soooo lucky!
cami ᰔ
The ‘CAUSE I OWN YOU’ made my soul leave my body. In a good way obviously. 😌
Brandi
Thank you D 🥰🥰🥰
Marissa
I envy whoever the lucky soul may be/ currently is your significant other, bloody hell… they’re probably on cloud 9 almost everyday 🤤😵💫🤤🤤😵💫
Madeleine
Is it just me? but when Im horney and need to fight it back/ hold back my eyes just water up like crazy...
Mo
The way I audibly gasped at 3:34 and cupped my hand over my mouth at 3:36 made this audio that much better. Talk about completely immersed 😍
Miss AJ
Listened to the whole thing. The water is great. Ready to jump in. Ready for darker, please!
PlagueRat29
YAAAAAY
Miss AJ
👀 A very dark audio? *Looking for fast forward button on universal remote.*
Little Bug
That’s the rest of my evening sorted ❤️ xx
Audiogasm021
honestly not that dark.. just testing waters before i release a very dark audio.. probably a super sweet one to prep for it
Miss AJ
This title is every reason why I'm here.
