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Update From Stef
🕑 Added 2025-05-07 03:23:55 +0000 UTCHey Everyone,
Havits here. Stef has asked me to share the following update with you all.
Over the last several months, many of you have noticed that Stef has been going through a challenging period. She has always been open about discussing her feelings and emotions with the community, though she hasn't shared everything publicly until now. Stef has been in a relationship for the past few years, and over the last 6-8 months, they've been experiencing difficulties, with frequent ups and downs. Despite Stef’s extensive efforts to make the relationship work and her dedication to making her partner happy, she has reached the point of exhaustion. Recently, she publicly mentioned him on stream, hopeful that things were finally improving and she could introduce him to everyone.
Unfortunately, Stef discovered last night that her partner has been unfaithful, which has deeply affected her emotionally over the past 24 hours. She has since blocked him, ended the relationship, and booked a flight back to Florida to spend time with her family. I've been in continuous contact with Stef, and although she is physically safe, she is understandably struggling emotionally. For now, Stef will take a short break to recuperate and spend time with her loved ones.
Regarding content, Stef does have a secondary setup in Florida, so she'll be able to continue watching and creating content soon—just please give her a little space and time. In the meantime, she has already watched the first two episodes of Attack on Titan. Although these were originally intended for the new anime tier on Patreon, I will be preparing them and making them accessible to the current tiers to bridge the gap during her break. Cut-downs for all unaired content will continue to be released on YouTube as planned.
As Stef’s editor, I want to emphasize what an incredibly strong woman she is and praise her for setting firm boundaries. It’s never easy to let someone go, especially someone you love deeply. I deeply appreciate Stef for building such a supportive community, and I'm asking all of you to let that support shine brightly now. Stef has always encouraged us that it's okay to feel, it's okay to stand up for our emotions, and she’s made all of us feel welcome and safe here. She will come back stronger than ever, and all of us who care deeply for her are here to support her fully.
Please drop your support down below, I know Stef will read it. All your words help make her stronger.
Comments
scroopynoopers
it’s the worst feeling when you feel like you’re not good enough. Although i don’t know you personally, i just want to say you are good enough. I came out the other side of the same situation happier then ever. I know it may seem impossible or too hard now, but we’re in july and i hope you’re doing better. Time heals all wounds 🙏 You have all of us for support. Never forget.
Jonathan Mullins
This posted June 14. I hope you are doing better Stef. Just know that you family here supports you unconditionally. I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through, but it does get better. Love ya Stef.
