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Are "Friends With Benefits" A Thing in Japan? [JP Subs]
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Important vocab in this video (EN):
1. 注æ„å–šèµ· (ã¡ã‚…ã†ã„ã‹ã‚“ã | ChÅ«i kanki) – Warning/Caution; A call to attention about potential risks or dangers. Used in the context of warning about risks like STDs and scams.
2. セフレ (ã›ãµã‚Œ | Sefure) – Friends with benefits; A non-committed sexual partner. Discussed in terms of its advantages, disadvantages, and societal perception.
3. ã³ã‚‰ã³ã‚‰ (ã³ã‚‰ã³ã‚‰ | Birabira) – Flaps/Folds; A slang term referring to the appearance of body parts, often used in a crude or derogatory way. Mentioned in a conversation about physical experience.
4. 沼る (ã¬ã¾ã‚‹ | Numaru) – To be obsessed/sucked in; Originally meaning “to sink into a swamp,†it now describes becoming deeply obsessed with something or someone. Used to describe emotional attachment despite casual intentions.
5. ゾッコン (ãžã£ã“ã‚“ | Zokkon) – Completely infatuated; A strong and sometimes overwhelming romantic or emotional attachment. Used to describe someone who gets too emotionally involved in a “friends with benefits†situation.
6. 本命 (ã»ã‚“ã‚ã„ | Honmei) – True love/Main partner; The person someone truly loves or considers their serious partner, as opposed to casual partners. Contrasted with casual relationships, questioning whether people with many partners have a “true love.â€
7. 割り切る (ã‚ã‚Šãã‚‹ | Warikiru) – To separate emotions from logic; To take a detached or rational approach without emotional involvement. Used in discussing whether it’s possible to have a purely physical relationship without emotions getting involved.
8. 感情移入 (ã‹ã‚“ã˜ã‚‡ã†ã„ã«ã‚…ㆠ| KanjÅ inyÅ«) – Emotional involvement/Empathy; The act of becoming emotionally invested in something. Debated in the context of whether people can truly separate emotions from physical relationships.
9. 浮気 (ã†ã‚ã | Uwaki) – Cheating/Infidelity; Engaging in romantic or sexual relationships outside of a committed relationship. Mentioned in relation to casual relationships and moral considerations.
10. 性病 (ã›ã„ã³ã‚‡ã† | SeibyÅ) – Sexually transmitted disease (STD); Infections spread through sexual contact. Highlighted as a major risk associated with casual relationships.
Important vocab in this video (JP):
1. 注æ„å–šèµ· (ã¡ã‚…ã†ã„ã‹ã‚“ã) – å±é™ºã‚„å•é¡Œã«å¯¾ã™ã‚‹è¦å‘Š; 性病やè©æ¬ºãªã©ã€ã‚»ãƒ•ãƒ¬é–¢ä¿‚ã®ãƒªã‚¹ã‚¯ã«ã¤ã„ã¦æ³¨æ„を促ã™éš›ã«ä½¿ã‚れる。
2. セフレ (ã›ãµã‚Œ) – æ‹äººã§ã¯ãªã肉体関係ã ã‘ã®ç›¸æ‰‹; メリット・デメリットや日本社会ã§ã®èªè˜ã«ã¤ã„ã¦è°è«–ã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
3. ã³ã‚‰ã³ã‚‰ (ã³ã‚‰ã³ã‚‰) – ã²ã‚‰ã²ã‚‰ã—ãŸå½¢çŠ¶ã®ã‚‚ã®ã‚’指ã™ä¿—語; 性的ãªæ–‡è„ˆã§ä½¿ã‚ã‚Œã€çµŒé¨“ã®å¤šã•ã«é–¢ã™ã‚‹è©±é¡Œã®ä¸ã§è¨€åŠã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
4. 沼る (ã¬ã¾ã‚‹) – 何ã‹ã«å¤¢ä¸ã«ãªã‚Šã™ãŽã¦æŠœã‘出ã›ãªããªã‚‹ã“ã¨; セフレ関係ã«æ„Ÿæƒ…移入ã—ã¦ã—ã¾ã†çŠ¶æ³ã‚’指ã—ã¦ä½¿ã‚れる。
5. ゾッコン (ãžã£ã“ã‚“) – 誰ã‹ã«å¤¢ä¸ã«ãªã£ã¦ã„る状態; 感情をæŒãŸãšã«ã‚»ãƒ•ãƒ¬é–¢ä¿‚を続ã‘ã‚‹ã“ã¨ã®é›£ã—ã•ã¨ã—ã¦è¨€åŠã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
6. 本命 (ã»ã‚“ã‚ã„) – 真剣ã«æ„›ã—ã¦ã„る相手; セフレã¨ã¯é•ã„ã€æœ¬å½“ã«ä»˜ãåˆã„ãŸã„相手を指ã™ã€‚多数ã®ã‚»ãƒ•ãƒ¬ã‚’æŒã¤äººãŒã€Œæœ¬å‘½ã€ã‚’æŒã¦ã‚‹ã®ã‹ã«ã¤ã„ã¦è°è«–ã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
7. 割り切る (ã‚ã‚Šãã‚‹) – 感情を交ãˆãšã«åˆç†çš„ã«è€ƒãˆã‚‹ã“ã¨; セフレ関係ãŒæœ¬å½“ã«æ„Ÿæƒ…抜ãã§æˆã‚Šç«‹ã¤ã®ã‹ã«ã¤ã„ã¦è°è«–ã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
8. 感情移入 (ã‹ã‚“ã˜ã‚‡ã†ã„ã«ã‚…ã†) – 何ã‹ã«æ„Ÿæƒ…çš„ã«å…¥ã‚Šè¾¼ã‚€ã“ã¨; セフレ関係ã«ãŠã„ã¦ã€æ„図ã›ãšæ„Ÿæƒ…ãŒæ¹§ã„ã¦ã—ã¾ã†ã“ã¨ã«é–¢é€£ã—ã¦ä½¿ã‚れる。
9. 浮気 (ã†ã‚ã) – æ‹äººãŒã„る状態ã§åˆ¥ã®ç›¸æ‰‹ã¨é–¢ä¿‚ã‚’æŒã¤ã“ã¨; セフレ関係ãŒæµ®æ°—ã¨è¦‹ãªã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã‹ã©ã†ã‹ã®è°è«–ã®ä¸ã§å‡ºã¦ãる。
10. 性病 (ã›ã„ã³ã‚‡ã†) – 性行為ã«ã‚ˆã£ã¦æ„ŸæŸ“ã™ã‚‹ç—…æ°—; セフレ関係ã®ãƒªã‚¹ã‚¯ã®ä¸€ã¤ã¨ã—ã¦æ³¨æ„å–šèµ·ã•ã‚Œã‚‹ã€‚
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