Caitlin V
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What’s the ONE thing that wakes your libido back up? Feeling wanted? A certain kind of touch? A moment of relaxation? The way someone looks at you? What’s your switch? I’m genuinely curious - please share your thoughts below. 👇
🕑 Added 2025-12-17 15:43:06 +0000 UTCComments
Mark Buchanan
Feeling wanted.
DavidD
When she puts her hand on me and the light touching begins.
Lovely Dutta
I appreciate you sharing that!
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I hear you!
Lovely Dutta
That's interesting! Thank you for sharing.
Lovely Dutta
Thank you for sharing!
Lovely Dutta
Fair enough!
Lovely Dutta
I appreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
Appreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
I hear you!
Grouchy Vince
Feeling wanted, for no specific reason outside of emotional attraction ... a loving smile that expresses, "I'm REALLY happy to see you!"
Tommy
My wife loves to grab my package casually while we are in the kitchen or the bedroom or pretty much just about anywhere. Confidence is what makes women sexy (to me) so my libido is instantly turned to 11 as soon as she grabs me - if only in passing.
Robert Voccola
When she unexpectedly begins to stroke/rub my chest, hugs me from behind, or sends me a flirtatious text. If I catch her taking a peek while I'm showering, or if she comments on my muscles (I've been working out more lately). Basically, being desired. Seeing her touch herself sends me through the roof. From time to time, she might take a shower while I'm soaking in a bath -- it drives me crazy.
Matt D
Little things, like when my wife starts rubbing my shoulders, gives me a hug, or cuddles in the middle of the night, when she laughs at one of my jokes, or when our eyes lock and she smiles at me. We've been together for 30 years. There is very little left of the newness, but the connection is stronger than ever.
Paul McCrone
Feeling Wanted
Raymond
I think for me the most amazing libido booster is feeling wanted it can come in different ways , but a woman telling me she wants me, even a text or a real intimate conection or flirtation can really get my mind thinking about it and my body sensing the energy that is so powerful . Its really interesting that even at 55 i still feel this amazing tingling and arousal .If she starts touching and kissing me its inevitable what will happen next. I just want to reciprocate the emotions and then make love to her . Thank you for the question Caitlin v 😍
Mick Peterson
Im 58 and in the past year have only discovered that feeling wanted is my key to most everything. Sex most definitely. My whole life would have been much more filling if I would have been aware of this sooner. My new wife of 1 year is a very sexual person but experience sexual trauma, young. So she pretty much has to ask for it or it triggers bad things for her. I have never felt so loved. Sex has never been so good. Being truly wanted and shown that regularly is a hudge plus in my life now. Too bad ladies dont realize the power they have that is so easily available.
Eli Israel
For this, I'm happy to say the answer is internal. When I feel capable, my drive is switched on.
