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Jayron Wright

Call me crazy but I don’t think episode 1 - 200 James & Fuad would have that perspective on the AITA… also unrelated but as I binge through these episodes daily I THINK I can see them money & success slowly change the guys which is understandable with them becoming international celebrities, but unfortunate to see as a fan IF it’s true

MillieMangolicious

Chris Williamson // chriswillx on YouTube

MillieMangolicious

Rust itself doesn't cause tetanus. It's bacteria in soil / feces. So, theoretical, the hook option isn't so bad.

owlynn

Ptsd when my mom's new boyfriend controlled the radio on long road trips

Vinny

Nah. The wasting the food and not taking it home ain’t parenting advice. You’re wasting my money. Child or not. It’s rude and inconsiderate. Not tolerated. Especially if you can’t afford it yourself. Def not the asshole. Raise your kids better. Good riddens to her. Maybe that’s why she’s struggling to make ends meet. Dont tell me how I should spend my money when you can’t budget yours. She’s lucky he even paid for the kids since he’s not obligated too.

Audrianna Smith

To be honest, he didn't give parenting advice. He stated how he felt about HIS money being wasted. He didn't say, they couldn't waste her money but he wanted his hard earned money to be respected and I felt him on that. She's the one having financial issues, and if this is how she shows children to respect money, it may be a reason as to why she's having it. I'm a single mom of one but I still understand the struggle, however, when someone offers to pay for my son (whether my funds are up or not), I'm still mindful of how much he's spending and making sure he doesn't waste it. Hell even when spending my own on him I'm like "Waiter, may we have a to go box". She's being selfish and feeling entitled to what's not hers.

Sheila

Hear me out: There is a high sense of entitlement in people who make big money, people who have changed their relationship with money so I can see why James said what he said. I get it, you can afford to pay for tings and it's not mad if they go to waste. This man, who pays to fly to her 3 times a year (btw did we completely ignore the fact that they have a relationship so they talk frequently enough to maintain the relationship.......why are we so focused on the 3 trips he makes🤦🏾‍♀️) He was well within his rights to share that he felt as though there was a lack of respect for HIS money! I don't care what kind of relationship I have with someone, NO ONE IN THIS WORLD IS ENTITLED TO HOW I SPEND MY MONEY! You are allowed to share how things/situations make you feel. And the fact that he started to pick up on their change in order size.......whilst the mother just observed......is she doing anything to better her situation or is the solution to just rely on men? Can we talk about that!! Like be ffr!

Lex Rand

Fam! NTA; most people have morals and principles , and communicating those early, like he did, would mean either you're about and charge it or you're not with it and move on. If that situation was going to be serious serious, I mean it would've came up anyway

Wes Washington

Anyone know the other dude talking to Mr Ballen in the story clip about Bundy?

Raven Thissel

I agree with James on everything.. I’m a solo mom and there is a certain point where I will listen to my man about his opinions about the kids, but it takes a long time to build that level of trust and intimacy. 💯

Kerzandy

Really? Then I'm over due ...

Tyra L Ramsey

He's NTA. The kids have never been a part of their dating, and since they're talking about living together, this was a little glimpse into what he could possibly be in for. I think he dodged a bullet in my opinion. Try to meet someone in your city.

Julius Kalauni

The last video was taken out of MrBallens video and he is a STORY TELLER!!

Zoyuhh

Reddit story guy is definitely not the asshole. Yes, telling someone about their kids can be a touchy subject. However, she took advantage of the fact he has a better financial situation than her. I think it wouldn’t have turned into this huge ordeal if they ordered the meals but took home the left overs or maybe the kids shared one huge drink between the two of them. You should NEVER allow your kids to be wasteful with other peoples money. He dodged a bullet and doesn’t owe her anything.

Toya Lee

🙋🏽‍♀️ Divorced mother here. I disagree with the comment that you can't tell a single parent how to raise their kids—context matters. Depending on the relationship, you can share pointers.

TJ

New SNG patreon member here :) loving the patreon eps so far

Trenai B

I’m caught up and I’m bored. What am I supposed to binge now ???

Destinee W.

The way I've always HOPED yall would watch some of Mr.Ballens videos!!? You guys need to do a reaction to his stories (could be the shorter versions) I think yall would be creeper out but interested at the same time.

Melanie Smith

As far as the Reddit goes I don't agree with him being at fault. Yes it's the woman's kids, but she should have said they weren't getting food or a large drink cause they won't finish it! She should've put her foot down an not letting them take the piss! Just cause he has money, doesn't give her the right to squander it. Makes me think she's much more interested in that sadly. He's definitely not an arsehole in my book

Jamie Marchbanks

I disagree with the advice on the Reddit story. They’re talking about moving into together so these views and morals are going to have to happen. I don’t agree with how he necessarily handled the situation, but she’s fully taking advantage of the fact that he’s willing to pay for things. I feel like she’s teaching her kids it’s okay to take advantage of people. Regardless if you can afford the things or not, you should teach your kids to be grateful. It’s his money, he’s allowed to feel some kind of way.

Rhonda Davis

Tetanus shot only last 10 years if I’m not mistaken!

PATRICE HARRIS

Agreed! They were way off on this NTA. The guy is spending money to link up with her 3x a year and spending money anytime they go out so this woman should’ve been mindful of her kids wasting his money. He wasn’t wrong for bringing it up to her and she was petty for breaking up with him for it.

Brent Sully

The way Mappas had women around the world in a CHOKEHOLD these past 2 years with Gojo, Nanami and Toji is crazy 😂

Brent Sully

Seeing 3 mosquitos is a meaningful thing there?? Im in Canada (not far from Toronto) and i’ll see 3 mosquitos every time i walk out of the house :p

agoesafterangel

NTA. Especially if you're headed into stepparent territory. Your values are your values. If money is tight, I would think you learn to be frugal and stingy, and you wouldn't be ignorant to when others are being wasteful. I know everyone is different but yea if she's not noticing & actively trying to make sure her kids aren't being wasteful, really makes me wonder if money is actually tight, or if he was being played a lil bit, like whas goin on here 🤔 😂 I think there could have been a better way to bring it up but hind sight is always 20/20 and he wasn't trying to slight her

Alleeeyy

That woman wants someone to pay for her 3 kids that’s why she cut it off so quick! She tested the waters. If she can’t afford them on her own she knew what she was doing lol

Nish

Lowkey wild to me yall would rather shove hooks through your flesh but idk lmfaooo

Bandile Nzimande

I had a that thought too you know. Especially James too. I was actually shocked at "cause they didn't finish a drink" my guy its HIS MONEY and being wasteful is a generally BAD habit too.

Marcio Saldanha

I agree. Normally I like their opinions but he is NTA. They are speaking like this now, but I guarantee when they were broke. They would be pissed about a woman and her children wasting their money.

Bandile Nzimande

The man w the wasteful stepkids is NTA. The lady needs to reign those kids all the way in.

LocoGuapoMollo !!!

The Platform is a Movie!!

Shirelle Forbes

You guys should watch “three identical strangers”

Natahliah Vegas

The Ted Bundy thing 🤯

Winter Snow

So excited! Saved this for my road trip today! Let's goooooo!

Carl Anthony Granger

Can tell that James and Fuhad don't have kid's!

Rebecca Wong

James not having a Monster next to him spun me. I’m like something doesn’t look right.

Shaunda

Almost at 400 eps. Let's go 🥰🤘🏽

PeaceMaker

NTA in my book. If they were thinking of moving in together, he just got a taste of how things are going to be. The woman claims things are tights and Those kids are wasteful and she refuse to nip that in the bud. It will be a disaster if they end up back together

Anthony Johnson Jr

You guys should do more reactions to Mr ballen he’s an amazing story teller of the weird dark n mysterious

Dshaaa

The platform 2 is confirmed and may drop this year!!!

Angela Brooks

Just letting Rem know I sent him a request and imma need you to let me in to the Discord my guy! (When you have the time 😊) Please and thanks!

Andym93

Gonna have to get me that Represent hoodie that’s for damn sure

Mara

I wonder if James realizes that when it relates to Africa and diseases he makes a joke that’s to the effect of “Africa has a ton of diseases there” particularly if it’s a sub-saharan country. And each time Fuhad’s expression is like “ok…” probably because I’ve been bingeing them but it’s something I’ve noticed that he might want to become more aware of.

Regis Black

James coming to slough surprised me I hate going bk to my hometown

Nyeta

I love Mr ballen lol

🧜🏽‍♀️Naomi🧜🏽‍♀️

For the AITA, I don't necessarily think the dude mentioning that her kids are being a little wasteful was assholely at all. Especially if he wasn't raised that way and has 2 children of his own. That type of thing can very quickly cause big issues in a blended family. It may seem small when applied to beverages but it will absolutely bleed into other areas. I also think that it is basic common courtesy to not waste food, especially when you're out. And especially when it's technically being gifted to you. I imagine these kids were also not saying thank you or giving out hugs for any of the wasted items. It would definitely wave a red flag for me. The guy has no right to try to change her parenting style or be rude to the children (don't think he did) BUT he absolutely has a right to voice his concern/s and then protect his own children from examples of things he does not wish for them to partake in. They can agree to disagree and go their separate ways, respectfully.

🧜🏽‍♀️Naomi🧜🏽‍♀️

Exactly!! 💯

erik Ayers

As I sit here smoking while watching pyp

Ronetta Kennedy

The “Am I the A$$hole?” was not the best take cuz he was right to say something. If she doesn’t have the money when he isn’t around, there is some reason they feel like they can ball out when dude is in town. The mom should be telling them to chill, and not spend (waste) someone else’s money like that.

RAbreeze

So happy I just cycled through my second patron payment of the year for shits & gigs. # cult baby Then when I got more money 💵 (“Dollas”), I rise up to become a cult leader and spread my seed through out the community.

Bood

What do you guys think about the sidemen reality show if you have seen it?

Catherine

She did say it. Because we use to be at this for at least an hour 🤣🤣

Catherine

I'm saying!!! I'll let people know I have this condition, just wake me up and let's keep going. The fish hook would cut me and id scream! It's not going through.🤣🤣

J Rob

You ain’t said nun but a word‼️

Natalie

Hank Scorpio!!!!

Helena

With the whole baby situation, believe it or not, in croatia it's seen as almost normal if someone says "oof your baby is so ugly!" Because they mean the exact opposite and it's kind of like they're jokingly showing fake jealousy and it's a compliment, nobody questions it and they all know its a joke, not even a slight hint of backhandedness.

Amber Johnson

If I spent $18 for your small children to have Starbucks and you know that your children never finish their drinks, it is highly disrespectful to use my money this way. Let them have purchase a tall drink, not a large. Venti drinks in my area are $6.25 each. Fellas, also answer the question as your former broke selves lol, not selling out the arena and US money lol.

Arthur Wells

Ahhh that all just builds character 😂

Arthur Wells

They gonna find out! Lmao I just pray they stay a while and the mosquitoes don’t scare them off early 😂

Amber Johnson

😂

Amber Johnson

And that is the reason I hate Florida lol….yall got gators, bears, snakes, large roaches and mosquitos that’s fight club you in the same parking lot, lol.

Jimson

Damn the free eps get more attention than us who pay money for content. That’s crazy

Chy

MrBallen in Shxtsngigs is the crossover I didn’t even know I wanted to see 👌🏾

Ashaki

Damn if I was in London I would definitely participate. I looks fun and amazing

Ashaki

FACTSSSS!!! The mosquitoes here don’t play and are huge 😂 and let’s not forget about them damn palmetto bugs

Ashaki

I agree and if we are talking about moving in together we need to be on the same page with how we are raising our kids since they will be around each other. As mother she should’ve been aware of this. It makes me wonder if she is wasteful with money herself,

Kesh

So funny hearing them talk about Slough, being from close by! 🤣 8 show is good, I was wondering if they would watch it

K Thomas

I heard a supervisor tell her team that she and and her friend, gave Ted Bundy a ride. When he was going through Utah apparently

Keira Laciskey

The video at the end shocked me 🫢

ItsLargeDad

Nah i totally understand the delivery might have been a little rough however the sentiment was there. Her being a struggling person and not teaching your kids to respect, be happy with everything you get, and not to waste is weird to me. It should be a given. I do agree though that this is something that needed to come up before since you were planning on moving in together and presumably he is gonna be a part of those kids life. He is gonna want to instill some of his morals and beliefs into the kids and a possible parental figure.

Toya

I agree with him but maybe think about the delivery. I wonder if she lets them order like that when she pays. People are real generous when it isn’t their money. Better to find out now instead of after he’s moved in.

Makayla Levy

400 here we come!!!

Toya

The unemployed friends is a real problem. I need 1 that is still willing to spend money because I’m bored.

Lo

I don’t think the guy was an asshole. This is my money I’m working for and you are allowing your kids to take advantage of it. NOPE

Diana

Episodes are not even 45min anymore 🥲 you don’t care abt yo babies no more 💔

Toya

Those lungs are raw cancer 🤮

Bryan

No I’m with you

Mo

Definitely NTA. But it's not his place to give parenting advice. Address the real issue which sounds like he may feel that's he being used.

LuLu

you gotta re-up on the vaccine like every 10yrs or so

Britney Broadway

Mr. Ballen on SNG?? What is this, a crossover episode?

Sahara Jordan

"YOU'VE GOT NO TEETH, YA DICK" 🤣🤣🤣

Ashly

Not me the thinking the CLEAR answer is falling asleep during sex 😂 because what?! A rusty fish hook?! Ain’t no way I’m risking my life like that. Feel free to keep going if I knock out mid coitus 🤣🤣

Joe Gray

Bro just get a fkn tetanus shot…. I’m not sleeping every time I’m getting some

God's Child

I almost drowned as a child (I was 12 years old). It happened at the Deep end of a Swimming Pool at a Family Friend's Private Club (Very swanky Club for Families). Thankfully, one of my friends (who was 11 years old - saved me and raised the alarm. God bless her!). So I have a huge respect (in other words REAL FEAR) of the ocean, sea, any body of water etc. So even if I were a millionairess- you can still keep that underwater Hotel. PLUS, I just watched a terrifying Film called "Under Paris" on Netflix (UK), yesterday about the River Seine housing an unusual Killer Shark! So - Noooo thank you.

Moett LLC

Ya'll talking about $10k a night... ya'll need to look at the hotel at the palms in las vegas... they have a suite that's $75k a night with a 2 night minimum... super nice but definitely gone cost them coins

Arthur Wells

Boy if you were worried about 3 mosquitoes just you wait till you come to Florida next month 😅

Tiffany Bryant

What is with the 45min episodes? Let’s get the full hour please at least. 😩🙂

ItsLargeDad

Am I the only one that doesn’t think the guy is the asshole?

Kenyetta B

💯 agree. She wants someone to spend money without conditions. If it was her money she would have some limits with those kids.

Shanell

You better find a pillow so I can fall face first into. 😆Tetanus? Potential flesh eating bacteria? Nope! 👎🏾 And i’m not knocking back elderly lungs like Ho-Fun. Let me buy a premium bond for your cabbage patch kid as an apology 🤷🏾‍♀️

OhhJay

I was thinking the same thing!

Ari. S.❤️🇬🇾

Please tell me I’m not the only one who thought butt cheeks in the would you rather senecio 👀😂

milabby

Yaaaaay back on YT 😍

Jenna Mailer

No way Mr Ballen

Noriah

I’m on the guys side with the AITA . He’s right and if they’re talking about moving in together their relationship is obviously serious no matter how many times a year they see each other in person . Also if his gf is short on money yet isn’t teaching her children not to be wasteful , that’s a red flag…

Sofia Mendes

fuhad and james without beards would give very much uncanny valley

Jay H

Living in the South in the U.S., hearing James go on about 3 mosquitoes made me laugh pretty hard. And also question - are swarms of mosquitoes not normal everywhere? 😂 I remember when Spring first started, there were almost literally 30 of them just chilling at the back door of my crib

Laura

So happy to be here😁😁

Mercedes

For any ladies in the chat that wanna dance in the rain ☔️☔️☔️ https://londonbitty.cademy.co.uk/april-showers

Alma Arguello

"The depression" from falling asleep during sex😂

Sidney D.

Literally after a nut the second best feeling is falling asleep. So would it suck yea but your getting the second best feeling every time u fuck give me that over a stab in the face